Independent Fools(where we are heading towards)

Today i came up with new post saying independent fools.Now a days we are seeing the people are more independent than before.This nature is somewhat good and somewhat bad also.Today when i was chatting with one of my friend ,i asked him are you people going to the marriage of our batch mate.The answer i got was 'NO'.I asked whether you people called him to wish ,they told NO.The guy to whom i was chatting was very much close with both bride and groom,so only asked.The reason what he given to me was strange,he told in life the priorities may change yaar.Now its friends tomorrow the same mentality will enter towards your relatives.This is what i thought we people are missing the fun which our parents ,uncles,unties had in their young age.Those people used to visit their friends marriage and chit chat with others.That makes them little relief in the routine life.

The good thing about independent way of living is now each person think why should we have to depend on others and he will lead a life which will not disturb others.Here the advantage is nobody will ask any help in the form of money or something else to you.Then you concentrate on your own family and can grow in your career like anything.There will be no distraction in your life.If it comes also you will handle more easily in this case.

The bad thing about this people are loosing the relationship.Like when a guy is not calling you for a long time its not that he forgotten you,he doesnt want disturb you(independent life).But when you call him after a long time  from youe side then it will be fun and that guy will feel very much emotional towards you.Here the emotional feelings are missing in the guys around us.There growing as strong as a rock.The bad thing here is the person who is struggling in the life will be hoping for help from which he can shape his life in a proper manner will be lost.We will never turn our face towards him.

Still i remember the incident where one of my close colleauge on Feb 7th  2007met with an accident was died at the spot.I didnt had any relation ship with him,but i was very much efeected with that incident  and i didnt got sleep for two days remembering that he is no more.But the life should go on.Now nobody  has a time to spare to enquire the situation ofthat guys  family .I too dont know how those people are leading their life.This guy was the only person  who was earning in their family.He had so many dreams that and all vanished in a day.

I am also  part of this ,i am also leading an independent life .We are thinking why should i have to go and ask ,let them come to us and ask if they want help.with this we are loosing the relationship and not enjoying fun what we should have to do in this age.Thats why life is a short ,we should enjoy each and every part of the fun and faults in our life.Time will never comes back.With this note i am closing my post .